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Supporting a Friend Who Discloses
When someone discloses to you, your response matters enormously. This guide gives athletes and students a simple framework for responding with care, not interrogation.
Steps
- Listen without interrupting.
- Believe them: 'I believe you. Thank you for telling me.'
- Do not ask 'why' questions: 'What were you wearing?' is never helpful.
- Ask what they need: 'Do you want to talk to someone? I can go with you.'
- Respect their choices: it's their decision whether to report.
- Follow up: check in a few days later.